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Written by Solomon Ip for Faithfully.
This year's Priests' Study Days brought over 80 priests to the Shrine Church of Our Lady of the Rockies, focusing on the theme "Co-responsibility in Mission," and the kickoff of Year II of the Pastoral Renewal. The Renewal journey, which began in 2023, continued with a new phase that officially launched on Oct 4, 2024, the Feast Day of St. Francis of Assisi. On Tuesday, Oct 8, the day began with the "Cast into the Deep" Pastoral Renewal video, inspiring us to a renewed sense of trust and mission. Dr. Bonnie Annicchiarico, chair of the Diocesan Renewal Leadership Team, followed with key updates, and Bishop McGrattan joined remotely from Rome to present survey results. Priests then received their parish-specific insights, which sparked lively discussions as they shared surprising, encouraging, and thought-provoking takeaways. We now invite you to hear directly from Dr. Bonnie Annicchiarico, who led the Renewal session at the Study Days. Read our interview below as she shares her thoughts on Pastoral Renewal and offers her perspective on the journey ahead. Bonnie, how did you get involved with the Pastoral Renewal Team?
Can you share a bit about your background and journey?
Can you share your experience of presenting Year II at the Priests' Study Days? What was the key message you wanted to convey about the future of Pastoral Renewal?
What does Pastoral Renewal mean to you, and do you have any words of encouragement for us?
What are your hopes for Renewal as we enter Year II?
Photos courtesy of Dr Bonnie Annicchiarico, Fr Iqbal Kurshid, and Office of Communications.
Written by Lauretta Dearing, OFS, member of St. Paul's Parish in Airdrie.
On September 20th, Saint Luke's Parish became the gathering place for an important and cherished tradition: the 45th Annual Sisters Night, hosted by the Knights of Columbus. This banquet is a special occasion where the religious sisters from the Calgary Diocese, along with clergy and lay faithful, come together to honour the immeasurable contributions these women have made to the Church and society. It is the only time each year that all the religious sisters of the diocese gather in one place, making the night a unique and uplifting celebration of faith, dedication, and service. The event drew a total of 101 attendees, including 34 religious sisters, Bishop William McGrattan, three priests, three deacons, and four consecrated virgin candidates. For decades, the Knights of Columbus have been committed to organizing this event, recognizing the sacrifices and impact of religious sisters across Canada. This year's gathering was no different, reflecting both the gratitude of the community and the enduring legacy of service carried on by the sisters. In his opening remarks, the Emcee spoke of the deep historical contributions of religious sisters and nuns to the development of Canada. From the earliest days of European settlement, these women were pioneers in building many of the country's foundational institutions. The sisters established the first schools, providing education to countless children, including those in remote and underserved areas. They also played a key role in building hospitals, offering compassionate care long before public health systems were established. Orphanages, too, were built by religious orders, where the sisters provided homes and care for children without families. But beyond their tangible contributions, the sisters have also been steadfast in their spiritual roles, offering guidance, wisdom, and prayers in every corner of the country. Their quiet yet transformative presence has been a pillar of the Church’s mission, and the Knights of Columbus feel it is essential to recognize their enduring influence. In his address, Bishop McGrattan spoke warmly of the sisters’ dedication and expressed the diocese's deep gratitude for their work. He acknowledged the unique role they play, not only in providing spiritual support but also in being a visible example of Christ's love in action. His words resonated with the room, where there was a sense of respect and admiration for the sisters' ongoing efforts. The event was also an opportunity for attendees to connect and reflect on the shared mission of the Church. Alongside the sisters, consecrated virgins candidates, priests, deacons, and laypeople all engaged in fellowship, united in their devotion to serving others. This sense of community is one of the hallmarks of Sisters Night, reminding everyone present of the collective strength that arises from shared faith. Honouring courage and faith The highlight of the evening was the tribute to the religious sisters. The Knights of Columbus ensured that the event was not only a time of celebration but also one of reflection on the profound courage it takes to embrace the consecrated life. In a world that often prioritizes material wealth and individualism, the sisters' lives of selflessness stand as a powerful counterpoint. They have chosen to live by the vows of chastity, poverty, and obedience, dedicating themselves entirely to the service of God and others. Of note, two sisters that were celebrating a jubilee of vows were Sr. Paula Mullen, FCJ, 60 years and Sr. Emelyn Rosento, DM, 25 years. As the 45th Annual Sisters Night came to a close, it was clear that the event had once again succeeded in honouring the profound legacy of the religious sisters. For all in attendance, the night served as both a celebration and an inspiration to carry forward the mission of love and service that the sisters embody so beautifully. Written by Kevin Dick, member of Knights Of Columbus Council #6994.
In a time when meaningful connection is essential, our parish gathered for a special Renewal Gathering on St. Michael’s Feast Day, September 29, 2024. This intentional choice set the tone for a day filled with faith and fellowship, centered around the blessing of our new St. Michael statue. This ceremony fostered unity and served as a powerful symbol of protection and courage in our faith journey. The gathering was a key part of our diocesan Pastoral Renewal initiative, aimed at deepening our understanding of being a community of missionary disciples, reminding us that we are called, we matter, and we belong. After the blessing, we enjoyed a delicious lunch provided by St. Michael’s Knights of Columbus. Laughter and conversation flowed freely, reflecting the joy of being together and the warmth of our parish family. It was heartening to see parishioners of all ages in attendance, especially since we provided childcare for families with young children. With our hearts and minds prepared, we entered the sanctuary, warmly welcomed by our host, Mike Fitzsimmons. Uplifting praise songs led by the ‘Love One Another’ Community invited everyone to join in worship. The atmosphere was charged with the Holy Spirit as we engaged in a guided Lectio Divina and prayer led by Fr. Edmund and Fr. Kelvin, focusing on the Road to Emmaus narrative from Luke 24:13-35. This scripture teaches us to be open to the Holy Spirit, highlighting the need to recognize Christ’s presence in our lives, often in unexpected forms. Engaging with Scripture allowed deeper truths to be revealed, fostering spiritual growth. The breaking of bread symbolizes the significance of the Eucharist and community in encountering Christ. Ultimately, the disciples’ transformation from despair to joyful witnesses of the Resurrection illustrates how openness to the Holy Spirit leads to personal renewal and a commitment to sharing the Good News. The presentation on the Diocesan Pastoral Renewal, featuring a short video and slideshow, provided insight into our shared mission. This vision made our goals feel attainable, emphasizing our collective responsibility in living out our faith. It’s comforting to know we’re all in this together, highlighting the importance of community support in our journeys. Following the presentation, Christian Estrella led a reflection encouraging small group conversations about the three Pillars of Renewal. These discussions sparked new ideas and fostered a sense of ownership over our mission, providing a unique opportunity to ask meaningful questions that could help our parish become a vibrant hub of faith and outreach.
The Canadian Conference of Catholic Bishops (CCCB), along with Aid to the Church in Need Canada (ACN), Catholic Near East Welfare Association (CNEWA) Canada, and Development and Peace — Caritas Canada (DPCC), has launched an urgent appeal for prayers and support for Lebanon, following the recent escalation of violence in the region.
As conflict between Hezbollah and Israel has spread into Lebanon, thousands of families are facing displacement, and local agencies are providing shelter, food, medical care, and psychological support. Bishop William T. McGrattan urges us to join in prayers for peace and donate to trusted organizations to help those in need. To offer your support, you can donate online or by phone through the following organizations:
Many people know about Religious Life in the Catholic Church, but did you know that there are other types of Consecrated Life as well? While Religious Life is the largest component of the Consecrated Life recognized by the Catholic Church, there is also an Order of Consecrated Virgins Living in the World, the Ordo Virginum. Unlike the celibate Religious who make vows within their communities and live the common life according to the spirituality of their Institute, these women live independently while consecrated through a holy resolution to be dedicated solely to the Lord their Bridegroom and obedient to the directives of the Bishop of their Diocese. They live according to the Rule of Life they draw up and they support themselves through their work in the world as does any independent person. Why would a woman choose to be a Consecrated Virgin instead of a Religious Sister? First of all, it is a call from God, a true vocation to follow the Lord and to be of service to His Church. Women who have other responsibilities, specific careers, or circumstances that would preclude them from entering a Religious community have found this vocation to be one specially suited to them. These women take up the task of praying for the Bishop and the needs of the Diocese, making them particularly close to the Diocese and its Bishop. We are blessed in our Diocese to have five women who have entered into the formation process to become Consecrated Virgins. Unlike single women living in the world, Consecrated Virgins make a public holy resolution during which they will be consecrated during the Holy Mass by the Bishop. (To be consecrated means being set apart exclusively for God.) This is a supernatural vocation that sets the woman apart for the needs of the people of her own time. Consecrated Virgins have assumed the docility of the Virgin Mary through prayer, contemplation, and a life of holiness that is open to the promptings of God’s grace and animated by charity for the sake of others. There are many exemplar virgin Saints after which the Consecrated Virgin can model her life for Christ, such as St. Catherine of Siena and virgin Saints from the early Church who are mentioned in the canon of the Mass such as St. Anastasia, St. Lucy, and St. Agatha. Since Consecrated Virginity lived in the world is new to many people, it seems helpful to provide some information about the why of such a way of life.Consecrated virginity is a way of being totally for Christ, to be married to Christ the Bridegroom of the Church, and to live the reality we will all, hopefully, experience in the life to come with Christ. As explained in the Catechism of the Catholic Church, "Virgins who, committed to the holy plan of following Christ more closely, are consecrated to God by the Diocesan Bishop according to the approved liturgical rite, are betrothed mystically to Christ, the Son of God, and are dedicated to the service of the Church. By this solemn rite…, the virgin is constituted . . . a sacred person, a transcendent sign of the Church's love for Christ, and an eschatological image of this heavenly Bride of Christ and of the life to come." (CCC 923) When seeking to explain this vocation, the candidates for Consecrated Virginity expressed some important understandings:
The Consecrated Virgin, in her spiritual motherhood, is dedicated to Christ and His Church. Her heart is to be open to God’s people, showing forth facets of the love of the Church, our true Mother. Fundamental to her vocation is praying for the needs of the Church, in particular the needs of the Diocese, the Bishop and its priests. Like the priests, deacons, and Religious men and women in the Church, the Consecrated Virgins pray the Liturgy of the Hours (the official prayer of the Church), praying for the Church and with the Church. As one candidate said, “Our hearts are open for Christ’s people, as we walk with them in compassion, accompanying them.” This initiative of the Diocese of Calgary of offering the opportunity for women to become Consecrated Virgins according to the ancient practice of the Church is in line with the new evangelization and the Pastoral Renewal of the Diocese. Consecrated Virgins exemplify the accompaniment of the People of God and witness to Christ and His Church.
The room was packed. The evening before, it had sold out, and the next day, some extra seats were released, which also sold out. People from all different demographics were present: seniors, families, young couples, and students. They all came because they were fascinated by one of the most intriguing topics in the Bible: the Book of Revelation. Additionally, Cardinal Collins had completed his PhD on the Book of Revelation, so the audience was set to receive a professional, in-depth look at a book that has puzzled so many. The Cardinal spoke about how the Book of Revelation needs to be understood within its historical context. Many Christians at the time it was written were being persecuted for their faith. So John, the writer of the book, was trying to encourage them to give their lives for Christ. John sought to provide them with an eternal perspective amidst their current struggles by helping them see that they were choosing to worship the Lamb or the Beast, to strive for the Heavenly Jerusalem or the Lake of Fire. This stark choice, and the contrast between the glory of heaven and the pains of hell, was meant to inspire the Christians of that time to give their lives for Christ, for the Lamb who conquered death by His death. Then he tied it marvelously into our own context by pointing out that the struggles of the Christians in the 21st century are not that much different from the Christians in the 1st century. Although we as Christians might not have to choose between life and death (at least in the Western world), we are still given the choice to choose between the Lamb or the Beast, between Jesus and Satan. The battle between these two options is symbolized by the woman in scarlet, the prostitute who rides on the Beast. The Cardinal pointed out that this symbolized an aspect of the spiritual life where we are allured by sin and not just outright rebellion against God. Therefore, we need to be aware of this path as well, because it also leads us towards the Beast and the Lake of Fire, and therefore, choose to live for Christ in a world that rejects him. All in all, it was a great evening of formation and community, as we were treated to some great snacks and food from St. Mary's University! St. Mary's aspires to become that place where meaningful conversations about faith and faithfulness to the teachings of the Church intersect. I am excited for our next speaker, Fr David Bellusci O.P, who is a Dominican priest and a biographer for one of the great young saints of this century: Blessed Pier Giorgio Frassatti. If you want to learn more about this amazing saint for the young, please come out to St. Mary's on Jan 23, 2025! Written by Fr. Troy Nguyen for Faithfully. Fr. Troy is the Vicar of Young Adults and chaplain for St. Francis Xavier Chaplaincy | www.sfxc.ca | Photos courtesy of St. Mary's University
Canadian archdiocesan and diocesan vocation directors assembled at the FCJ Retreat & Conference Centre in Calgary from Oct. 1-4 to contemplate how they can join forces to inspire more calls to the priesthood and consecrated life. Organized by Newman Theological College’s Benedict XVI Institute for the New Evangelization, the “Awakening Vocations" Conference offered the approximately 30 clerics expertise on how to craft a strategic plan and constructively dialogue about what is and is currently not working with vocational ministries. Apostolic Nuncio to Canada Archbishop Ivan Jurkovič and Cardinal Thomas Collins, the Archbishop of Toronto from 2007-23, delivered keynote addresses. Jurkovič analyzed the Dicastery of the Clergy’s 2016 document Ratio Fundamentalis Institutionis Sacerdotalis - The Gift of the Priestly Vocation. As for Collins, in addition to presenting his remarks, he also led a lunchtime working session centred on spotlighting the efforts of the lay vocations organization Serra Canada. Fr. Cristino Bouvette, the vocations director for the Diocese of Calgary and a conference coordinator, said attendees gained important insights from the four-day symposium, but perhaps the most significant gift was the companionship. “In many cases, we are facing similar things, similar challenges, and it is very encouraging to realize that we’re not doing our work alone even though it sometimes feels like you are a bit isolated in your diocesan context,” said Bouvette. “To be with other vocation directors to share similar things you are facing and working on is encouraging and uplifting.” Fr. Connor O’Hara of the Archdiocese of Ottawa-Cornwall echoed Bouvette’s sentiments by saying it was “consoling” to learn that all of the vocational directors have “very similar experiences, challenges, blessings and scopes of work that they’ve been asked by their bishop to see to.” All the priests unanimously agreed that this spirit of solidarity cannot be constrained to just a four-day event in Calgary. An Oct. 3 working session was devoted to considering the structure and vision of a potential nationwide vocations director association or confraternity. Additionally, there was also deliberation about creating various clusters with three to five vocations directors so these clerics could engage in concentrated conversations about their respective diocesan situations and keep each other accountable. “I am looking forward to putting together groupings of priests that will work and meet together going forward from this conference,” said Fr. Daniele Muscolino of the Diocese of Sault. Ste. Marie. “We can continue to share resources, update each other about how things are going and talk about best practices.” Bouvette and Muscolino both told The Catholic Register there are advantages to having these clusters being regionally based, but there is also inherent value in having a vocations director from Toronto routinely gleaning insight from a peer in Victoria, B.C. The priests received a glimpse of what an ongoing working relationship could look like during a breakout group session to craft a strategic vocations plan for the next year. These roundtable discussions were facilitated by Bill Tomiak, the executive director of the local Catholic Christian preparatory school Clear Water Academy — managed by the Legion of Christ — and Dr. Sinda Vanderpool, the president and vice-chancellor of St. Mary’s University. Other presenters included Peter An, a seminarian in Calgary; Fr. Kris Schmidt, the Archdiocese of Edmonton vocations director; and Fr. Geoffrey Young and Fr. Murray Kuemper of the Diocese of Saskatoon. Bouvette presented the research on the state of vocations authored by the Benedict XVI Institute for the New Evangelization, specifically its former director Dr. Ryan Topping. The Register reported earlier this year how the revelations within "Meet Our New Priests: 12 Key Findings about the Background, Discernment, and Seminary Formation of Canada’s Recent Ordination Classes" paint an alarming picture of the state of priestly vocations. Alluding to The Vatican Central Office of Church Statistics’ replacement ratio for seminarians to priests (RRSP) equation, Rome suggests there should be “12.5 seminarians for every 100 priests.” As of October 2023, Topping tabulated there are 6,025 active or retired priests in Canada. The RRSP required to replenish that total is 753, but there were only 211 active seminarians a year ago. Yet-to-be-published research about the Canadian vocations director landscape was also presented. The Benedict XVI Institute anticipates publishing its "Fishers of Men" report within several months. Written by Quinton Amundson, Catholic Register. First published in Catholic Register on Oct. 11. Published with permission. Photos courtesy of Newman Theological College, Benedict XVI Institute.
Children attending our educational program at the Dominican Sisters Daycare Center learn about God's creation and redemption through daily Bible stories and actively discover God's presence in our world through various activities. One of the areas where they experience the significance of creation is our garden. Vegetables and flowers planted by the Sisters are not only a sight to behold but also an opportunity for the children's active participation in the beauty, effort, and fruit of God's work. Their hands-on involvement is a source of pride and joy for everyone and an essential aspect of our educational approach.
For the Sisters and children, spring is a time for preparing the soil and planting seeds. It is also a time to learn patience, observation, and systematic care for the tiny seed hidden in the ground, trusting that God will sustain it. By observing the growth process firsthand, children develop a deeper understanding of botany, ecology, and environmental science. This knowledge enlightens them and helps them feel like participants in creation and co-creators of God's work, inspiring a sense of connection and shared purpose among parents and educators. Focusing on the children's active role in the growth process strengthens the support for the educational approach. So, where do the veggies come from? They grow up, down, and around! Summer is when we first see the results as vegetables grow. The children taste fresh cucumbers, smell carrots, and compare the size and weight of green zucchini. In autumn, during harvest, the children also learn to give thanks for God's gifts of fruits and vegetables. By collecting potatoes, beets, and carrots from the field, they learn to work together and appreciate the beautiful gifts God has given us. They also check what items from our garden made it to the lunch table and eagerly try all the veggies on their plates! There are many smiles at the Sisters' table as we share stories about the daily moments we witness during this process. For example, not everyone wants the items they collect to end up in the kitchen. Here’s a great story from our garden lessons: As the children poured potatoes into the shared basket, Sister Zacharia noticed Antoni hiding a bucket of potatoes behind him. She approached and said, 'Antoni, you can put the collected potatoes into the basket here.' Antoni shook his head and replied, 'These are my potatoes; my mom will cook them for dinner.' There was no question of adding them to the basket—what Antoni collected was already his. He was delighted to provide dinner for his family and proudly placed the fruit of his labour in his locker!
Written by Sr. Zacharia Hryc, OP. Sister Zacharia is a Dominican Sister of Immaculate Conception Province. She is an Early Childhood educator at the Dominican Sister Daycare Centre, Calgary.
On a bright sunny day, African Catholics living in Calgary flocked to the first African-organized Mass celebrated in Calgary. The Bishop presided with concelebrants representing the main African nations of South Sudan, Ethiopia, Cameroon, and Nigeria living in Calgary. The celebration was a visual and auditory extravaganza, showcasing the enthusiasm and joy that African Catholics bring to their liturgical celebrations. With such a diverse congregation, Bishop McGrattan wisely devoted part of his homily to the Diocesan Renewal. He said "the core of the Renewal is a growing personal intimacy with the Lord." How simply explained and easy to understand! How much scope for reflection, which I did for days afterwards. The light went on for me after almost a year of posters, Zoom and in-person meetings and the indefatigable efforts of the Pastoral Centre to keep me informed and active. Good thing I am retired and have a high pain threshold! The light revealed this.
We need to aim high. I never recollect going into an exam just to get a D! Thank you Bishop McGrattan for that one sentence. Written by Cedric de Souza. Cedric is husband of Greta, father of four and grandfather of seven, all the joy of his life. He was born and educated in Kenya, Uganda, India, Britain and now is a happily retired resident in Alberta. He and Greta are long time parishioners of St. Bonaventure's Parish in Calgary, where he has served in several volunteer positions. He is currently the chair of St. Bonaventure's Parish Renewal team.
St. Mary’s Cathedral was alive with colour and culture on Sunday, Sep. 29, 2024, as over 300 people gathered to pray and celebrate our migrants and refugees brothers and sisters. Fr. Avinash Colaco, rector of St. Mary’s, graciously presided over the Eucharistic Celebration in the absence of Bishop McGrattan, who was attending the Plenary Assembly in Ottawa. Thanks to the tireless efforts of the Cathedral’s team, Catholic Calgary Immigration Society, and many dedicated volunteers, including the lively musicians from St. Mark's Parish choir —the evening was a true testament to unity, faith, and diversity within our diocese. Traditional attire lit up the pews, and the shared joy extended to the food and conversations after Mass. Alongside tasty sandwiches, Jollof rice, steaming hot congee, and other cultural dishes were shared and enjoyed by all. Fr. John Jwad, pastor of the Chaldean Catholic Community, and a son of Iraqi immigrants, delivered a moving homily during the Mass. He spoke of the challenges many immigrant families have faced, fleeing persecution and finding safety in Canada.
Photography by Thiago Campos, Our Lady of Fatima, for the Diocese of Calgary.
Statement from Most Rev. William T. McGrattan, Bishop of Calgary and CCCB President To the Catholic Faithful of Canada: An invitation to pray and fast for peace today, Oct 7. During this month of October dedicated to Mary, and especially today on the Feast of Our Lady of the Rosary, at a time when there continues to be so much violence between peoples and nations in the Middle East (and elsewhere), I invite all Catholics in Canada to take up Pope Francis’ invitation to pray and fast for peace. Prayer is a most powerful instrument, capable of healing division, changing hearts, opening minds, and bringing new beginnings to situations which seem impossible. Mary, who bears the title Queen of Peace, is a powerful intercessor who, likewise desiring peace among all peoples and nations, brings our prayers and petitions to God and makes them more effective. Fasting, in this context, provides a special way by which to join ourselves to the suffering of others, in solidarity with them, as well as to the sufferings endured by Christ during his Passion and Crucifixion. We may think, as we fast, of the many forms of human suffering that are associated with war and all forms of violence, and thereby strengthen the earnestness and concreteness of our prayers. As we pray and fast for peace, let us also seek in our own lives to become instruments of peace wherever we live, taking inspiration from the beautiful and famous poem of Saint Francis of Assisi, “Lord, make me an instrument of your peace.” It is in welcoming dialogue, embracing forgiveness, and supporting efforts to foster justice and reconciliation, that such steps help to create a society where all people can flourish in the way that God intended. On an overcast September afternoon in a hospital room with a view overlooking the Bow River toward the mountains, sits Rob and Christa Rubben playing cribbage. The way they delight in this age-old game is reminiscent of an old, happily married couple. Christa tends to Rob’s every need, adjusting his bed tray, fixing his breathing tube, holding his hand. Rob gazes at his bride, humbly accepting her loving care and making her laugh through it all. The way they’ve shouldered difficult circumstances, embraced their cross and remained faithful is truly remarkable. One week before Rob passed away, the Rubbens spoke candidly about their lives in a shared four-bed hospital room at Foothills Hospital, in between doctor consults, nurse rounds, family visits and much emotion. Speaking publicly about personal matters is unnatural to the couple, but Rob in particular felt called to give glory to God by sharing his story, which is in turn their story. After a two year battle with colorectal cancer, Rob and Christa understand he has run out of medical interventions for a chance at a cure, but they have not run out of faith in God’s perfect plan. Adult Diagnosis In November 2022, at the age of 36, Rob’s diagnosis came as a shock not long after vacationing in New York City, where they were celebrating their five-year wedding anniversary. On the trip Rob felt exhausted and Christa noticed he looked really pale, so Rob decided to see his family doctor upon return. Their doctor ordered blood work and, when the results came in, they showed irregularly low hemoglobin levels. His doctor asked that Rob go directly to emergency for a blood transfusion. He was admitted to hospital for further testing and, about a week later, the biopsy results were conclusive. He had colorectal cancer. After removing the tumor, followed by six months of chemotherapy, Rob initially had clean scans. But about five months after treatment, scans showed growths in his peritoneum (the lining surface of the abdomen). This past January, Rob began treatment again, only this time the Rubbens invited their friends and family to pray a nightly Divine Mercy Chaplet together for a miraculous cure as well as for peace, strength, perseverance, trust and hope for the journey before them. Since that time, a group has met online each night for the chaplet. Participants take turns leading a decade and, more recently, have begun asking for the intercession of Saints to whom the couple have a devotion: St. Peregrine, St. John Paul II, St. Mother Teresa, Blessed Solanus Casey, and Sr. Wilhelmina of Missouri. For Rob, who was 38, praying the Divine Mercy prayer is about “a trust that God’s mercy is greater than all things. And He can do all things,” he said. “Now, is He going to do everything we want? [Not necessarily] But we don’t know what’s best either. I just think Divine Mercy is an opportunity to surrender that to God and trust in Him, trust that His mercy is always there.”
Reclined in bed, Rob’s eyes instantly brightened with light as he described the couple’s first encounter in vivid detail. “We broke away from the group and just got talking about this and that… Getting acquainted with one another,” said Rob. “I wouldn’t say the sparks were flying, but at the same time it was just nice to talk to you,” continued Rob, looking at Christa. “You were interesting and easy to talk to.” “That’s one thing I’ve always found in our marriage is wanting to spend time with Christa, wanting to talk to her. It’s not to say we don’t have our disagreements, but [our marriage has] always been very strong in terms of our friendship. It was just a really friendly chat. I definitely thought she was really cool and really interesting.” Fast forward to today and the Rubbens would have been approaching seven years of marriage on October 7. They exchanged vows at a beautiful Calgary wedding at Holy Name Parish, with a fun reception at Heritage Park inside Gasoline Alley. To see them now, you might think this couple could just as well have been married 70 years the way their gaze holds a tenderness and wisdom, born of intentionally facing their challenges together. “Never would I have thought two people could love each other as much as we do,” said Rob, wiping tears from his eyes. Christa’s “number one quality without a doubt is how big her heart is,” said Rob, his voice cracking as he takes half a minute to compose himself. “She just cares so much for everyone and she does so much for everyone. She goes out of her way to love and care and she will just do it. She’s just the most kind-hearted person I’ve ever met.” “I think I’m a good guy, but like just the way my brain works, I’m not wired the same way that she is – like to have that big of a heart,” finished Rob in a whisper of emotion. “All her other qualities are just so rooted in her love for everyone…. At the end of the day Christa’s capacity for love is so high that to me that’s all that matters.” Christa has been wholly devoted to Rob throughout his cancer journey, taking time off of work to sit with him in hospital as he receives chemotherapy treatment. Since Rob was admitted to Foothills Hospital in September, Christa has scarcely left his side. At night she curls up into his hospital bed, “taking up only a small piece of real-estate,” as she says, so he’s not alone through the long, oft painful nights. For Christa, Rob provides stability and security in their relationship. “Rob has always made me feel very seen,” said Christa, choking back tears. “I’d never felt that way before, where someone truly saw me for who I was, and cherished it. It helped me come out of myself, which has been so incredible. “I think he sees the worth in people, and that’s such an incredible thing, and it’s blessed me so much. It’s made me more confident in who I am and my worthiness. I’ve always felt cherished by him from the very beginning. I feel he does that with everyone around him.
Family Life A core cross within the Rubben’s marriage has been their struggle with infertility. “I think we both just really wanted to be parents…” said Rob. “It’s a hard dream to let go of.” Working with their counsellor, connecting with friends in the same or similar situation as well as seeking spiritual direction from their long-time friend Fr. Cristino Bouvette, have helped the pair navigate this suffering. Within the context of infertility, Fr. Cristino “reiterated to us that Rob and I are a family and we don’t have to have children to be a family, that was started when we got married,” said Christa. “That helped us solidify ourselves as our unit.” The Rubbens learned how to hold the hard and the beautiful at the same time. “Joy and sorrow always go together, and we’ve lived that pretty deeply through our time.” At the time of Rob’s cancer diagnosis the couple had been in the process of adoption, so the joy of the prospect of adding a child to their family had to sorrowfully be put on hold. “We’ve dealt with so many serious things, and at the same time, we try not to take life too seriously,” said Rob. “You have to laugh and joke about the hand you’ve been dealt. You have to keep it fun, playful, not too serious – light.” Christa remembers when Rob was first in hospital, trying to figure out why his blood work was off. “I got some ginger ale and some chips and we watched a movie with pop and chips in the hospital bed and it was really fun. It was one of those joyous moments in the midst of our life [being] turned upside down. But little things like that make things better,” said Christa, smiling with her eyes. Childhood Cancer
Considering Rob’s long history with cancer, it is miraculous that they could enjoy a sweet moment together in hospital waiting for his lab results. Rob spent a portion of his childhood – ages 7 through 11 years old – battling for his life. Doctors found a tumor the size of a small cantaloupe on his kidney on a Wednesday evening in November 1993. That Friday morning Rob underwent a 12-hour surgery to remove the growth. He still remembers all his treatments, the dates they started and finished, how many cycles, the types of procedures used. Over the course of the next year, Rob underwent chemotherapy. Three months after he finished treatment, a scan showed a small growth on his lung. This time Rob’s treatment was highly aggressive. The doctors performed a stem cell transplant, harvesting the stem cells from his own body. “It was intense,” said Rob. “They would blast you so hard they would entirely kill your immune system and then throw you into the isolation room. Each time I was in isolation for 10 days.” Rob went through six rounds of this treatment, with three-week breaks in between. All told, he spent 60 days in isolation. Rob stayed in a small room with a bathroom and cot for visitors that had vacuum-sealed doors leading into a vacuum-sealed hallway. Anyone who entered had to gown, glove and mask. His parents alternated visits and volunteers spent time with him too, but there was also alone time. “It was hard. You are this eight/nine-year-old kid and you can’t do anything,” said Rob. “You can play board games, you can watch movies, read books, but you are in bed for 10 days at a time.” Rob’s scans came back clean for a year after treatment was finished, until a mandarin orange-sized tumor was found on his other lung. “They took it out, but it had rooted out like a spider, and had grown legs, so they couldn’t get all of it out,” said Rob. At this point, he was given a 10 percent chance of survival. Rob’s options were to try one last ditch effort at treatment or just to go home. “My parents were told, ‘Here’s our options, Rob’s probably going to pass away, but we could try this, but it will be our last shot.’ My parents told me about that, and asked me what I wanted to do, and I just wanted to keep fighting,” he said. Another year of combined radiation and chemotherapy treatment until Rob’s final round in November 1997. Rob then needed clean scans for two years to be considered cancer free.
Miraculous Healing At first Rob was upset about all that happened to him, but, as his teenage years wore on, his perspective changed. Rob began to see his healing as a miracle. “The stories of prayer that I’d heard over time from others – that opened my eyes to what was at work,” said Rob. “Just hearing from my parents, ‘You are a miracle child,’ I think my parents shielded me from a lot of the severity of it. I don’t think they thought I was going to necessarily get better. They were told, ‘We don’t think that Rob’s going to be okay.’” Rob was born to Peter and Donna Rubben on September 8, 1986 in Burnaby, BC. He grew up there with his brother, Alex, and sister, Jennifer. Family life was complicated with Rob’s childhood cancer and his younger brother, Alex, who has special needs. Nevertheless, everyone was appreciated for who they were within the family and they enjoyed doing favourite family pastimes together, like swimming and biking. When asked, Christa shared her impression of how different experiences have shaped their family. “I can see it in all of you, you pay attention to the vulnerable,” said Christa to Rob. “You all have a heart for that in your own way. It’s your own Rubben-way, but you have a heart for caring for the vulnerable.” The Rubbens’ Irish-French Catholic roots run deep. Rob’s mother, the second of seven children born to Irish immigrants: John and Delia O’Neill; and his father, the fifth of eight children born to Henri and Rita Rubben of French-Canadian and Ottawa Valley roots, have always raised their family in the faith, attending Mass regularly. “My parents have always maintained, ‘I don’t know how we could do this without faith,’” said Rob. “No one has ever been like ‘I want nothing to do with God, I’m super angry.’” There were many consolations within Rob’s childhood cancer journey. He was blessed with a faith-filled oncologist, Dr. Jeff Davis, who prayed for his healing. His family formed a lifelong friendship with the Davis family, and Rob remains friends with Dr. Davis’ son. Rob recalled a story about seeing “the lights” wherein he had a very difficult night after one of his lung surgeries. Both lungs collapsed an hour apart. In the middle of the night, while the physiotherapists were working on him, Rob kept telling his mother ‘I’m seeing the lights.’ Meanwhile, Rob’s mother told him to ‘hold on’ while she prayed rosary after rosary.
Heaven is for real Since January, Rob has undergone aggressive treatment to shrink the peritoneum growths, so he could receive a specialized surgery called HIPEC (which Rob describes as marinating the growth in targeted chemotherapy). But in the spring, after four months of chemotherapy, the battle waged on with the discovery of new growths in his bones. All the while, Rob showed excellence in his profession, continuing to work nearly full-time with Canlin Energy and was even promoted as a team lead. Never losing hope, Rob endured complications in the summer that postponed his last chemo cycle before scans. When he found out the cancer had spread past the bones, he was gearing up for new treatment. But the cancer was spreading quickly now, creating complications with his liver, which made new treatment options unavailable. On September 11, Christa made the heart-breaking announcement on their CaringBridge site that Rob was being moved into palliative care. At day’s end on September 19, Rob passed away with Christa faithfully by his side. His funeral will be held October 5 at St. Anthony’s Church in Calgary at 1 p.m. with a reception to follow at Cabin Brewing Company; he will be interred inside Our Lady of the Rockies in Canmore. The funeral falls on the feast of St. Faustina Kowalska, who was divinely inspired to compose the Divine Mercy Chaplet, the same daily devotion the Rubbens and their community have prayed together daily since January. Throughout Rob and Christa’s journey, they have never strayed from Church teaching and miraculously retained the gift of ardent faith, hope and love. Here is Rob in his own words. “There have been times where I’ve been like, ‘I can’t believe this is happening to me again.’ When I was a kid, maybe some anger, but this last time never any anger. I’ve just never wanted – since all that stuff as a child – I’ve never wanted to be angry at God. I just believe in Him and what He can do. “I told Fr. Cristino that there’s two things that upset, anger, sadden and scare me about this whole thing. One of them is the people I’m going to leave behind, especially Christa,” said Rob, suddenly brought to tears. “Since I’ve met Christa all I’ve wanted to do is take care of her. That’s what matters most to me and it’s really hard to think about me not being there to take care of her. I know everyone else will, but it’s really heartbreaking for me. “The other one is going downhill and knowing that there are going to be some pretty hard sufferings along the way. I know … as Christians, suffering is an important part of our journey, but you know… Jesus was in the Garden, and He wanted His suffering taken away. Even Jesus wanted that, and that’s hard cause I know how much He suffered. “But in terms of dying, is there a God, is there no God, what do we really believe, our actual fundamental beliefs, I’m not scared of that and I’m not scared of, just dying and that’s it. I believe, like I really do, I’ve never been a person who’s wanted to turn his back on his belief in God. I’ve never wanted to turn my back on that, I’ve never wanted to not believe, and not be a Catholic. It’s always been really important to me. "I do believe in God’s mercy and heaven and eternal life with Him. And sometimes it’s hard to wrap your head around it from a less intellectual, more like a – this is a place I could be going soon. But I do believe. “I remember I contemplated heaven a fair bit for a while back when I was totally healthy and no issues, and I just think heaven and being with Jesus and the way Jesus will know us in heaven is just something that our earthly brains can’t even comprehend. So it might sound philosophical, but I just don’t think we have the brain power to understand that. So why contemplate it? Just trust. I think you just have to trust and believe that God is there. He’s real. He’s merciful, and He’ll take care of us.” Written by Sara Francis for Faithfully. Sara is a writer living in Calgary with her husband Ben and their six children. They attend St. Bernard's / Our Lady of the Assumption Parish. Photos courtesy of Christa Rubben.
Join us for a Eucharistic Celebration on Mon, Sep 30, 2024, at 5 pm at St. Mary's Cathedral on National Day of Truth and Reconciliation. All are welcome! National Day of Truth and Reconciliation On Monday, September 30, 2024 Canadians commemorate the work towards reconciliation by honouring residential school victims, survivors, and their loved ones.
The City of God The late Catholic thinker Fr. James V. Schall, S.J. said that we should read The City of God at least once in our lives, though he also said once is not enough. He described reading The City of God as “one of life’s soul-moving experiences, like reading Aristotle’s Metaphysics, or The Brothers Karamazov, or the Epistle to the Romans.”[1] St. Augustine completed The City of God a few years before his death and began writing it nearly fifteen years earlier, shortly after the sack of Rome by barbarians from northern Europe in 410 A.D. He wrote the book in part as a response to those who blamed the decline of the Roman Empire on the Christian religion. Instead, he argued, the empire’s demise was due instead to its own moral decadence, and the futile gods of paganism were never capable of giving the Romans happiness in the first place. Augustine did say, however, that Christians were at fault insofar as they failed to admonish their pagan neighbours for fear of losing social status or economic advantage (a timely lesson, certainly, for today). All of this Augustine treats of in the first half of the book. In the second half, however, he treats of something much broader: the origin, development, and destinations of the City of God and the City of Man. The City of God is the society of all who love God as their supreme good, and the City of Man is the society of all who love themselves as their supreme good. At its deepest level, history is the story of the struggle between these two cities, a struggle in which the City of God is ultimately victorious. The Importance of The City of God Today The City of God is both timeless and timely, relevant in every age, including our own. In writing about the two Cities, Augustine examines a whole host of theological topics, such as the creation of the universe, the good and the bad angels, original sin, grace and free will, the relationship between the Old and New Testaments, the Incarnation, and the resurrection of the body. Participants in the book study said that reading The City of God gave them a better understanding of what we as Catholics believe and that it helped them appreciate our faith’s richness and depth. Studying The City of God also gave readers a sharper sense of the reality of our faith. In one part of the book, Augustine recounts what was happening among nations outside of Israel, especially Assyria and Rome, at the same time as the events narrated in Scripture from the time of Abraham to the coming of Jesus Christ. By tracing the course of salvation history alongside the course of secular history, Augustine brings home that the Christian faith is not about myths or fairy-tales but rather real historical events and that the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus Christ are the central events of human history. Readers noted parallels between pagan ideas that Augustine had to respond to and ideas prevalent today. In the words of one reader, “We are seeing a lot of pagan philosophies reappearing in our society, so it was interesting to read Augustine's response to these...because today they appear as relatively new concepts and yet they are sitting there in history.” Augustine provides a model of how to respond to the ideas of the culture in which one lives with the light of the Gospel. The City of God provides helpful guidance for Christians living in today’s world. We have already noted Augustine’s emphasis on fraternal correction. Concerns about social standing or the opinion of others should never hold us back from speaking the truth, which is ultimately, as Scripture teaches, an act of charity (cf. Ezekiel 33:7-11). Moreover, although many sectors of earthly life may be dominated by the City of Man, Augustine says that the citizens of the City of God should not simply run away from earthly affairs (such as business or politics) but rather seek to direct them toward eternal realities. Catholics should engage with their contemporaries and show by word and example how the splendour of the truth revealed in Jesus Christ has the power to transform our lives and direct us toward perfect and lasting happiness. Augustine has much wisdom for those who seek to be missionary disciples. This week, the St. Luke’s book study will begin a new adventure: reading St. Paul’s Epistle to the Romans. In January, they will take up St. Francis de Sales’ Introduction to the Devout Life.
Written by Fr. Derek Remus, Associate Pastor of St. Luke's Church, Calgary.
This year brings an important step for the eight permanent deacon candidates in the Diocese of Calgary’s Permanent Diaconate Formation Program. As these men and their wives enter their third year of a four-year journey, they are called to a deeper engagement with the Word of God through the Rite of Institution of Lector, a significant milestone on their path to ordination. “The Rite of Institution of Lector is the second of three rites in the formation program,” Deacon Laing, member of the Permanent Diaconate Formation (and Mission) Council explained. “This step marks a growing level of commitment for these men as they prepare to serve the Church in a unique way.” The first rite is the Call to Candidacy, and the third, which comes next year, is the Institution of Acolyte. For Deacon Laing, the beauty of this rite lies in the candidates’ deeper immersion in scripture. "These eight men have accepted the task to become ‘readers and bearers of God’s Word,’” he said. This year of formation, with a focus on sacred scripture, prepares them to bring the living Word to the community in a profound way. Here is the list of candidates who have just begun their third year of formation (of 4 years) and were instituted as Lectors this fall:
A Journey of Transformation When asked about the personal reflections of the candidates, Deacon Laing shared, “A few have mentioned that this journey in formation has brought them closer to God, to their families, and friends.” It’s clear that this experience is transformative, not only for the men, but also for their loved ones. Family plays a significant role in the candidates' journeys, as many of them attend formation sessions alongside their wives. The support system extends even further, with the parish community and clergy contributing to the preparation of the ritual. “Every liturgy requires preparation and rehearsal,” Deacon Laing mentioned, emphasizing the work behind the scenes that helped with the execution of the Rite of Institution of Lector. At the Mass, Bishop McGrattan’s words resonated deeply with the candidates. Deacon Laing recalled part of the bishop’s prayer: “As readers and bearers of God’s Word, you will assist in this mission, and so take on a special office within the Christian community.” The bishop reminded the newly installed Lectors of their responsibility to instruct others in the faith, proclaim God’s Word, and bring the message of salvation to those who have yet to hear it. What’s next? As the candidates move forward, their formation continues to deepen. “Part of year three is dedicated to the ‘Principles of Liturgy,’ and ‘Introduction to Preaching,’” Deacon Laing said, explaining that these lessons begin to prepare them for year four, which focuses on homiletics—learning to prepare and deliver homilies. For now, though, the candidates are focused on becoming true bearers of God’s Word, guided by the scripture that continues to shape their vocation. With each step they take, they are drawn deeper into their mission of serving the Church and proclaiming the message of salvation. Welcoming 5 new aspirants In addition to the permanent deacon candidates, five aspirants have just begun their first year of discernment in the Permanent Diaconate Program. "The journey to ordination as a Permanent Deacon begins with a year of “Aspirancy” or discernment, followed by three years of formation guided by the pillars of Theological, Spiritual, Pastoral, and Human development," explained Deacon John Walsh, chair of the Permanent Diaconate Formation Council. Here is the list of the aspirants who have embarked on this path:
These men have now taken their first steps on a journey that will shape their lives as they discern God’s call to serve as deacons within the Church. As they begin this important path, let us remember them in our prayers. For more information about the Permanent Diaconate program, visit catholicyyc.ca/permanentdiaconate
Photography by Victor Panlilio, for the Permanent Diaconate team. On September 8, 2024, Sacred Heart Parish in Calgary witnessed a historic event that united the Filipino Catholic community: the very first combined fiesta celebration of Our Lady of Peñafrancia, organized by the Filipino Mass Team Ministry and the Peñafrancia Association. This occasion drew significant attention, graced by the presence of Philippine Consul General Emma Sarne and Vice Consul Vida Soraya Verzosa of the Philippine Consulate General Office - Calgary, highlighting the importance of cultural and religious ties for Filipinos living abroad. The Eucharistic celebration was led by Fr. Arjay Abanto, the parish pastor, and concelebrant Fr. Roderick Caabay from the Apostolic Vicariate of Taytay, Palawan, Philippines. The Mass, attended by over 1,600 people, attracted Filipino pilgrims from various regions including Calgary, Fort McMurray, Lloydminster, Edmonton, and even as far as Montreal, Quebec. This overwhelming turnout exemplified the strong sense of community and shared devotion among Filipino Catholics, embodying our Diocesan Pastoral Renewal call to be "a church of encounter and witness." The significance of the fiesta lies not only in its religious observance but also in its power to create a sense of belonging among diverse groups of individuals. Attendees felt a profound connection to their faith and community, affirming that they matter and belong within the framework of the parish, following the teachings of Christ, Mary, and Gospel values. Fr. Abanto’s inspiring message emphasized the importance of deepening one’s faith and devotion to the Blessed Mother, even for those living far from the Philippines. Many found hope and encouragement in his homily, which called for humility, service, and a commitment to the Filipino Catholic faith. Consul General Emma Sarne echoed these themes, recognizing the sacrifices made by Filipinos working abroad. She acknowledged the challenges they face but also emphasized the resilience of the Filipino spirit. Despite these challenges, Filipino Catholics remain committed to nurturing their faith, showcasing a remarkable ability to connect with their spiritual roots regardless of geographical boundaries. The event was also supported by various members from the parish organizations and parish office, whose participation highlighted the strong foundation and relationships nurtured with the Filipino community. Their presence reinforced the idea that such celebrations are not only religious but also communal gatherings that strengthen ties among parishioners of diverse backgrounds. In summary, the inaugural fiesta celebration of Our Lady of Peñafrancia at Sacred Heart Parish was a profound expression of embracing the faith, community, and resilience for Filipino Catholics in Canada. It served as a reminder of the power of shared beliefs in forging connections and fostering a strong sense of belonging, transcending borders and bringing individuals together in devotion and fellowship.
Holy Trinity is a small parish in the heart of the mountains in southwestern Alberta. We’ve been part of this parish for six years, and before that, we were involved with All Saints Parish in Lethbridge. We are glad to be engaged in the Renewal Process. We felt inspired by the initial meeting and presentation that the Diocese held at St. Martha’s Church in Lethbridge. Father Joe is also encouraged by the Renewal Process. Even though we are a small parish with not much activity, we are taking small, concrete steps to create an atmosphere of belonging. We want the focus to be Christ-centered in a practical way—calling people to community, building friendships, and exploring possibilities for spiritual growth.
Written by Marie & Steve Burger, Parish Renewal Team Members at Holy Trinity Parish, Blairmore. Photo courtesy of Holy Trinity Parish.
It’s not every day that a priest, a deacon, and a seminarian take the stage as the evening’s headlining performers. But that’s exactly what happened on August 16th, when St. Mary’s Cathedral hosted its summer renewal gathering. After the 5 pm Mass celebrated by Bishop McGrattan, parishioners were invited to the Parish Hall, where they were greeted with live music and an array of sandwiches and refreshments. The band, featuring Fr. Avinash Colaco, Deacon Greg Barcelon, and other members of the parish community, set the tone. Praise and worship songs, led by seminarian Peter An and other parishioners, provided a beautiful start to the evening’s entertainment. The band later performed several classic hits that kept the dance floor packed all night! The evening also provided an opportunity for parishioners to express their gratitude to the beloved Associate Pastor, Fr. Julian Studden, on his retirement, and to welcome Seminarian Peter An, who will be with the parish for the upcoming year. Meanwhile, outside, the children had their own section filled with games, a bouncy castle, arts and crafts, balloon animals, and face painting. There were laughter all around. The line for face painting also kept the volunteers busy, and the crafts table was never empty as kids’ worship songs played in the background. This renewal event offered activities for all ages—an important aspect recognized by the organizing committee. The youth and adult volunteers ensured that the children were kept busy, safe, and happy, allowing their parents to enjoy time in the hall with the community. It was heartwarming to see Bishop McGrattan engaging with the children at various stations, even taking time to sit at the craft table to make paper fish alongside them. The efforts of many parish groups and individuals were key to the evening’s success. The call for volunteers was shared after weekend Masses leading up to the event—and it worked! Both new and seasoned volunteers stepped forward, making it a true community effort. The sight of so many hands coming together to clean the hall after the event was, in itself, inspiring. The success of the Summer Gathering, which saw over 500 volunteers and participants, is a strong indication of the need and desire for continued pastoral renewal at St. Mary’s Cathedral. Written by Mary Ojo, a member of the Parish Renewal Team at St. Mary's Cathedral. As the youngest member of the team and a high school student, Mary also volunteers as an altar server at the Cathedral. Photos are courtesy of Mary Ojo.
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