Men's Renewal in Medicine Hat

Diocesan renewal is alive and well in Medicine Hat.

The process of making Missionary Disciples has been ongoing in Medicine Hat for some time now, with the local Men's ministry utilizing the TMIY (That Man is You) resources and currently in its 12th year. This year's retreat theme was "Prayer, Basic Training," and a silent men's retreat was held earlier this month at Holy Family Parish, on March 8-9, 2024. 

Deacon Robert Risling, the coordinator of the TMIY program, and Lindsay Heier, MA, a core team leader, delved into the history of the Desert Fathers and prayer traditions from Eastern and Western Catholicism. They taught participants to "Breathe with both lungs of the Church" (a quote by St. Pope John Paul II) to help them develop a rule of prayer.
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"To be successful in life, one must be intentional; one must both make and keep a plan; the spiritual life is no different. During the retreat, over 30 men who were eager to improve their prayer lives immersed themselves in a silent, contemplative, monastic experience of prayer. This is not an easy task in the noise-filled environment we're accustomed to." shared Deacon Robert.

This men's retreat has drawn significant praise from its attendees. Deacon Robert and Lindsay offered profound spiritual insights that resonated deeply with the participants.
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Bob Anderson, a participant, expressed his appreciation for the retreat's focus on internal perspective and humility. "The perspective we learned is that the development of a prayer rule is not because we are advanced but because we are weak," he said. Anderson emphasized the importance of prayer as a reaction to God's grace and a means of assimilating its content within ourselves. "Prayer is natural, yet mysterious, ordinary yet mystical, simple but supernatural," he added. Anderson concluded by highlighting prayer's role in instilling hope and strengthening faith, thus eliminating the fear of the past, present, and future.

Mike Rae shared how the retreat was an inspirational godsend for him. "The retreat opened my eyes, heart, and mind to how lacking my prayer life was," he confessed. Leaving the retreat, Rae felt inspired to devote more time to God, describing the experience as unique, inspirational, and educational. Robert Rae appreciated the pairing of monastic elements with theology and practical tools for improving prayer life. He described the retreat as a blessing that offered both spiritual and practical direction, emphasizing the need to slow down and give what is due to the Lord in our busy lives.

Ray Bosch found alignment in the retreat with Pope Francis' Jubilee Year of Prayer. He particularly appreciated the focus on prayer and the use of "Lectio Divina" to prepare hearts. "I believe the Word of God unified us as we all draw on the same source of living water that gives life to our souls," he said. Bosch also highlighted the impact of the silent retreat, which allowed time to savor and digest the richness of prayer.

Blaine Nowicki described the retreat as a great experience and very informative. "I not only learned so much about different ways to pray, but also how to apply it to my prayer life and become closer to Jesus," he said.

The feedback from these attendees underscores the profound impact of the Men's Lenten Retreat. It was not only a source of spiritual insight but also a platform for personal growth and improvement in their prayer lives. As the participants' testimonials indicate, the retreat has been instrumental in inspiring and guiding them towards a more fulfilling and profound relationship with God.

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Contributor: Deacon Robert. Deacon Robert was ordained in 2002 by Bishop Frederick Henry. He has been serving at Holy Family Parish in Medicine Hat for 22 years and has also been a trustee for the Medicine Hat Catholic Board of Education for 10 years. Deacon Robert has been married for 33 years and has four children and three grandchildren.

​Photos credit: Deacon Robert Riesling.