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Finding joy in the bleak winter months

1/9/2022

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I gingerly sat on my cold leather seat, tensely awaiting my van to warm up on a frigid winter day recently. As I drove down my street, I begrudgingly looked out my passenger-side window and noticed my neighbour braving the -20 weather. 

To my amazement, Bill, at 101-years-old was slowly trudging through the snowy sidewalk with his walker underhand. I was completely awestruck! 

Walking to the corner store is, in fact, Bill’s ordinary extraordinary regular routine. And I’ll admit my grumbly, inner monologue screeched to a halt; I felt sheepish watching him from the comfort of my van.     

Bill’s example is exactly what Dr. Wojciech Brzezinski orders to maintain winter wellness and beat the winter blues. This is a topic near to my heart, as I find that these shorter, cold days challenge my own mental health.   

In a phone conversation with the newly retired physician, we covered topics ranging from growing up in a convent with his family in Communist Poland, his time as a junior national pairs figure skating champion, meeting his wife in medical school and then fleeing Communist Poland as a political refugee in the 1980s.
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Dr. Wojciech Brzezinki
We talked about how Brzezinski landed in Canada 39 years ago (his wife followed two years later) and spent the next seven years completing his residency specializing in surgery in Edmonton. Subsequently, he practiced medicine for 10 years in Fort McMurray and 15 years in Medicine Hat before settling in Canmore. He and his wife have raised two sons and delight in their three grandchildren. They are faithful Our Lady of the Rockies Shrine parishioners and both love keeping active with sports.

Skiing down a mountain, or going for a swim brings Dr. Brzezinski joy, especially in the bleak winter months following Christmas. 

Drawing on his professional training and life experience facing adversity, he shared his three-part prescription with me for maintaining health of body, mind and soul this winter. 

First, find a hobby or passion that inspires you to wake up in the morning and get you excited about the day."
“Keep occupied with something meaningful on a regular basis,” said Brzezinski. “If you think you’ve accomplished something, it’s way easier to tolerate the darkness. You also enjoy coming back home even though it’s already dark. It’s crucial to know why you are getting up in the morning.” 
Second, be active outdoors no matter how cold."
“For cold temperatures you can always dress up,” Brzezinski said. “There is no cold that’s too unbearable for a 15 minute walk. To breathe fresh air, to have that frosty feeling on your face is invigorating. Being active even just once a week on a regular basis is crucial.”
Third, find an accountability partner – spouse, friend, family member – to keep you motivated and stay connected."  
“I can’t overemphasize the importance of a partnership in life and in faith,” said Brzezinski. “It’s something we don’t appreciate enough on a day-to-day basis and yet there are times when it’s incredibly important.”  
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Snowshoeing. Photo: Dr. Brzezinski
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Fr. Nathan Siray ice-climbing the frozen Marble Canyon in Kootenay National Park, BC
On occasion he has realized his passion for being active outdoors by going skiing with his parish priest Fr. Nathan Siray, of Our Lady of the Rockies in Canmore, who also shares a love for the outdoors and winter sports. 

So I decided to also call Fr. Siray to hear his perspective on living winter well. It turns out he does some kind of activity every day whether it be a day of skiing, a quick run or an ice climb up a frozen waterfall. 

“Frozen waterfalls are the coolest thing! It’s a surreal experience where you are climbing up the ice, but the water behind the ice is flowing,” said Siray.

“I’m totally amazed by frozen waterfalls. I think they are such a cool sign of God’s creative brilliance.”

Both Siray and Brzezinski agreed that being outdoors even in frigid temperatures offers the faithful an opportunity to exercise gratitude and give thanks for God’s creation. 

And for those who can’t get outside Fr. Siray suggests choosing a book or spiritual reading that is upbeat. 

​“This time of year, because it’s a harder time, choose something to read that’s going to lift you up – a light-hearted novel or a spiritual book that isn’t quite so heavy; I think those can be a good remedy,” said Siray. 

Sunlight in Canmore can be limited in the winter because the mountain peaks block the light. During the winter, Fr. Siray prays in the darkness of the morning and evening and lights candles to make those prayer times special.  
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“You are always looking for those light sources; you are hungry for light throughout the day. Lighting a candle helps me to pray. It fits for this time of year. It beats some of the darkness all around,” Siray said. 

At the end of our conversation Fr. Siray wanted to reassure me and our readers that “the light and warmth will return. That sense of expectation and longing for these things – I think there is something good in that too.”​

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Written by Sara Francis for Faithfully. Sara is a writer living in Calgary with her husband Ben and their five children. They attend St. Bernard's / Our Lady of the Assumption Parish. 

​Photos courtesy of Sara Francis, Fr. Nathan Siray and Dr. Wojciech Brzezinski.
3 Comments
Alice Matisz
1/10/2022 09:28:12 am

Thank you for this timely article. Seasonal Affective Disorder can make life particularly bleak for some of us at this time. But God’s gifts of Nature and Scripture usually serve to lift my spirits (although I won’t be ice climbing anytime soon :)
I also find bird- watching helpful. Even a sprinkle of birdseed under a tree will bring a flurry of life into view. It helps the birds too because food can be hard to find when it’s snowy.

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Maureen
1/16/2022 11:35:37 am

I have just recently lost my husband suddenly and unexpectedly. These steps are great to help with the icy, cold grip of grief on my heart. Thank you, they are an answer to my prayers to help me through these dark days. God Bless

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Alice
1/17/2022 12:52:53 pm

Hello Maureen, I just couldn’t read your comment without offering sincere condolences. We may not know each other but we’re all sisters and brothers in Christ. So please accept my virtual hug and the payer for peace I shall offer whenever your “icy” grief comes to my mind 😔

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